Is Lesbian Bed Death A Real Thing?

  • How to initiate sex in a way that works well
  • Your ideal frequency for having sex
  • The best time of day (or night) to do it
  • Your sexual desires and fantasies
  • Some of your favorite ways to give pleasure
  • How you most enjoy receiving pleasure
  • Ways you can both explore and experiment with novelty in the bedroom
  • Recharge your sexual desire by doing a few key things
  • Both of you should exercise for 30 minutes a day
  • Have a weekly date-night
  • Spend at least 30 minutes having dinner together every evening with no cell phones, computers, or tv
  • Each of you does something apart from one other for at least two hours every week
  • Have a prolonged “See you later” and “Welcome home” hug every day
  • 15 minutes of sensual (not sexual) touch every day (no breasts or genitalia)
  • Try out a little sexting
  • Take a bath or shower together at least once a week

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